How do you get your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend to stop smoking? You don't. You can't. They have to decide and do it for themselves. So then, is talking about it a complete waste of time? Absolutely NOT. At least 95% of people who try to quit smoking without some kind of help will go back to smoking within six months. That's a statistical fact, but relatives, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, best friends–they all have their guards up already for advice coming from those close to them, and some have even set rules and barriers up so you can't even talk about their habit, what you hate about it, and much less how they can or should quit. So what to do? Step One : Do the research for them, but don't push it on them or preach it to them. They won't listen. Simply find a holistic, natural method* that doesn't involve dangerous medications, gimmicks, or nicotine, and simply mention that you read something "interesting" and just sugges...